I'm not special, I'm just a special edition.

"I'm not special, I'm just a limited edition".

Do you recognize this quote? Well, it counts for me and i'm quit sure that it also concerns you.

In life it's not about copying others as life has given all of us different questions.

How often we ask for help, second opinions, just to find out that they don't fit for us. Other people don't live our lives, they don't experience what we do, they have different choices and therefor don't help us out. Even with their best intentions.

Therefor there is a huge difference between answers like "I would do so and so when I've got your choices right" and "You should do this".

Our conscious withholds us often from the right choices and actions, only because we were told to act so and so. If we would consult our unconscious we would get completely different answers.

We are programmed by the relative successes on our first attempts that worked out well. We continued by doing exactly the same on our primary successes even when we started failing afterwards.

Later on programming was often carried on by our environment. Parents, partner, friends, school, government, church, etc. influenced our conscious. Sometimes with best intensions, sometimes to keep us low.

Good news is that there is a way out by getting into a dialogue with our unconscious and find stepstones to a happier life.

Never ever forget, and this goes with the picture: "So they laughed at me and said I was different and i smiled back as they were all the same".